There's a gap between how you see yourself
and how others read you
Most people assume they're being read accurately. The SIGNAL Relational Codex™ shows you what others are actually picking up — and where it differs from what you intend.
Built by Jamie Ann Medina —
a finance and marketing strategist who spent a career learning
how the same information lands differently with different audiences.
The SIGNAL Relational Codex™ Analysis
You assume you're communicating curiosity, warmth, or independence. The person across from you is picking up something different — and neither of you knows it's happening.
The analysis looks at how you actually come across — in your profiles, your messaging, the way you pace early interactions — and maps where the gap is between what you're putting out and what people are receiving.
Most frameworks describe who you are. This one maps what other people are actually experiencing when they interact with you — and where that differs from what you intend.
Discover Your Relational SignalWhy I Built This
I'm an introvert who presents as an extrovert, and the cost of that shows up after the room clears. I can hold a stage without thinking twice about it, and dozens of follow-up emails can shut me down. People tend to trust me quickly — I enjoy deeper conversation and they pick up on that. I just couldn't sustain the volume of people who responded to it, or understand why so many were latching on so quickly.
In relationships, I've seen a different version of the same pattern. Partners would offer more than they could actually sustain — more time, more availability, more involvement. Eventually they'd feel overwhelmed by what they volunteered, and it would look like I was the one asking for too much when I would have been fine with far less. The signals I give off tend to invite that intensity, and the other person ends up putting pressure on themselves to show up in ways they can't maintain.
When I went through my own analysis, I was giving off more warmth than I realized — drawing people in at a rate I couldn't sustain professionally and at an intensity I didn't need personally. Once I could see that clearly, I started making different choices. Not because something was wrong with how I was showing up — I finally understood what I was putting out and could make deliberate decisions about it.
That's what the analysis is designed to do. Not change who you are — show you what you're already putting out so you can decide what to do with it.
My clients tend to be people who have already done the internal work — they know who they are, but they can't figure out why other people aren't seeing it.
The SIGNAL Relational Codex™ Framework
The framework examines six dimensions of how you come across — not who you are, but what people actually experience when they interact with you. Together these dimensions create a map of where your signal is landing clearly and where it's creating a different impression than you intend.
See How These Patterns Show Up In Real Time
We share ongoing insight, examples, and breakdowns of relational signals as they appear across modern dating.